I always get taken a little aback, when someone actually defines me; it's an odd thing. I think it's because a lot of the time I don't really understand myself, so when somebody seems to have an insight into me I am quite surprised. To define a person is a tricky feat if ever there was one; some people may seem quite predictable but then out of nowhere they do something that is completely out of character . Or somebody may seem like a complicated puzzle who never does anything you expect them to; I think I am somewhere in between. I am not an emotional person by any stretch of the imagination and to some people I may seem aloof. I do feel that a few of my friends don't really know me, because they don't really stick around when things get difficult. I don't resent people for it really especially when it comes to me because I can be really unresponsive and uncommunicative. But even when I'm like this only a few people will try to be there, even when I'm in one of those phases. I definitely go through phases where I can be ridiculously hyperactive and all over the shop, but then I won't speak to anybody and lose interest in everything and everybody, so I don't blame people for not wanting to stick around. The problem with me is that I'm not exactly good with dealing with things, I definitely flight instead of fight which is probably not a good thing; actually it's definitely not a good thing. But it is nice to know, that even when things are rough, there will be someone there when everything has calmed down; but sometimes you need someone there when things are rough to help you get through them, and not just be there when things are all rosy and nice.